“May 15, 1984... A day I will always remember. It is the day my son, Aaron was born. Nineteen years later, it’s the day I put flowers on my son’s grave. No birthday, no party or cake, no candles, only tears. Aaron’s dreams, and mine, were shattered July 4th, 2002 when he died from an alcohol-related crash.” - Aaron’s mother, Brenda Tophoj